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How do you flirt, date, and manage relationships? Those can be confusing questions. After all, everyone has their own style of finding and keeping love. Each person seems to be looking for something different.

When you scratch beneath the surface, however, there are common psychological principles that guide us all. Everyone courts, dates, loves, and relates in scientifically-understood and predictable ways. Psychology can help you make sense of love!

Therefore, on this site you will find a variety of psychological research, methods, and techniques that apply to a wide range of sensibilities. Your personal style might not be compatible with it all, but you will definitely find pieces that work for you. You can get the love life you want. The Attraction Doctor is here to help!

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Basic Rules for Successful Relationships

Basic Rules for Successful Relationships

With all of the advice out there, relationships can get pretty complicated. Everyone has a formula, method, technique, or approach for the best relationship. To start, however, it is best to have a firm foundation in the simple and powerful steps that lead to relationship success. In this article, I will indeed share with you those basic principles. I will also include links to my other writings for more information, elaboration, and tips. Read on for simple solutions to the complicated world of relationships!

Basic Rules for Successful Dating

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With all of the advice out there, dating can get pretty complicated. Everyone has a formula, method, technique, or approach for dating and relationships. To start, however, it is best to have a firm foundation in the simple and powerful steps that lead to dating success. In this article, I will indeed share with you those basic principles. I will also include links to my other writings for more information, elaboration, and tips. Read on for simple solutions to the complicated world of dating!

Body Language for Flirting, Dating, and Influence

Body Language of Men and Women

What you don’t say matters. The right body language is essential for flirting, dating, and relating to others. Knowing the right way to move, stand, and position yourself is crucial in order to attract a partner, flirt, and get a date. Also, the match between your body language and spoken words may mean the difference between finding love – and dinner alone.

Stopping a Partner’s Bad Behavior

When a partner behaves badly, it is often difficult to know how to react. Should you ignore the behavior? Punish them? Scream and yell? Sometimes, nothing seems to work.

Psychology does offer helpful solutions to the problem though. There are ways to respectfully influence and eliminate a partner’s bad behavior. Read on to learn them…

Can Men and Women Be “Just Friends”?

Can men and women ever be friends without sex or feelings getting in the way? Is it possible to make opposite sex friendships that are enjoyable and stress-free? Read on and learn how to handle opposite sex friendships! Read more here…

How Can I Find a Good Man or Woman?

Do you find yourself picking the wrong guy or gal time after time? That may be more than bad luck. Here are five reasons why you might not be finding the love of your life. Read more here…

Avoiding the Friend Zone: Becoming a Girlfriend or Boyfriend

How do people end up in the “friend zone”, facing unrequited love? Why won’t some friends-with-benefits ever commit and “make it official”? Read on for the answers…and tips to avoid the friend zone yourself! Read more here…

Do Pick-Up Artist Techniques Really Work?

Are pick-up artists for real? Do their methods work? Science offers some support for the effectiveness of their “game” and “seduction” techniques. Read more here…

5 Tips for Gift Giving with a Date or Mate

It can be difficult to exchange gifts with boyfriends, girlfriends, spouses, partners, and special friends. How do you find the right present? How much is too much (or too little)? What will keep you in their good graces…and out of the doghouse? Read more here…

Why Nice Guys and Gals Finish Last in Love

Sometimes being nice does not lead to love. Find out why. Read more here…

How I Learned to Have a Satisfying Relationship

I have learned some valuable lessons in my own search for love and happiness. They just might be the key to happiness for you too. Read more here…

Maximize Your Chances of Picking a Satisfying Partner

How do you know when you’ve found the right person for you? Use rational choice theory to help you decide! Read more here…

Why You Shouldn’t Believe in Soul Mates

Do people who look for a soul mate find them? Do soul mates live “happily ever after” more often? Research has the answer. Read more here…

Basic Rules for Successful Relationships

Basic Rules for Successful Relationships

With all of the advice out there, relationships can get pretty complicated. Everyone has a formula, method, technique, or approach for the best relationship. While all of this relationship advice can be helpful…it can also become confusing and overwhelming.

Given that, when managing a relationship, it pays to start with the basics! Sure, all of that detailed advice is helpful later on. To start, however, it is best to have a firm foundation in the simple and powerful steps that lead to relationship success.

In this article, I will indeed share with you these basic principles. I will also include links to my other writings for more information, elaboration, and tips. Read on for simple solutions to the complicated world of relationships! » Read more..