Author Archives: Dr. Jeremy Nicholson

About Dr. Jeremy Nicholson

My name is Dr. Jeremy Nicholson. I am a Doctor of Social and Personality Psychology, with a research and writing focus on influence, persuasion, dating, and relationships. I also hold Master’s degrees in Industrial/Organizational Psychology and Social Work. I currently lives in Boston, Mass.

Basic Rules for Successful Dating

With all of the advice out there, dating can get pretty complicated. Everyone has a formula, method, technique, or approach for dating and relationships. To start, however, it is best to have a firm foundation in the simple and powerful steps that lead to dating success. In this article, I will indeed share with you those basic principles. I will also include links to my other writings for more information, elaboration, and tips. Read on for simple solutions to the complicated world of dating! Continue reading

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Who Should Ask and Pay for a Date?

In modern dating, should men still be expected to ask for and pay for dates? Or, is it attractive and egalitarian for women to make the first move? Find out whether you should be working up your courage (and reaching … Continue reading

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Does Playing Hard to Get Make You Fall in Love?

Do you love or lust after someone more when you can’t have them? Does their indecision and disinterest just make you want them more? Read on to understand why! Read more here…

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Body Language for Flirting, Dating, and Influence

What you don’t say matters. The right body language is essential for flirting, dating, and relating to others. Knowing the right way to move, stand, and position yourself is crucial in order to attract a partner, flirt, and get a date. Also, the match between your body language and spoken words may mean the difference between finding love – and dinner alone. Continue reading

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Why Are Men Frustrated With Dating?

Why does finding the right woman seem so hard right now? Why does dating feel so punishing? Are men stuck in a no-win situation? Here are some answers! Read more here…

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Why Women Can’t Find a Good Man

Why does finding the right man seem so hard right now? Have all the “good men” gone away? Perhaps, there is another explanation! Read more here…

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Touch Part 3: How to Start (or Restart) Your Sex Life with Touch

Ever wonder why your date or mate is not as amorous as you’d like? Perhaps they are missing a little sensual physical contact. Learn to touch, nuzzle, and cuddle your way to a gratifying sex life! Read more here…

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How to Motivate a Date or Mate

Have you ever argued with your lover, or been in a power struggle for control? Avoid that mess and motivate them towards your desires… with a bit of influence. Read more here…

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Touch Part 2: How to influence and Persuade with Touch

Ever wonder why your date or mate is disagreeable? Perhaps they are missing a little influential physical contact. Learn to touch, nuzzle, and cuddle your way to persuasive relationship success! Read more here…

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Touch Part 1: How to Flirt and Attract with Touch

Ever wonder why a relationship goes nowhere or fizzles out? Perhaps it was missing a little attractive physical contact. Learn to touch, nuzzle, and cuddle your way to attractiveness! Read more here…

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